Im confused can someone explain this to me?

dont tell me to ask my mom because i dont enjoy one. i was asking a friend who merely lost her virginity how it was during the process. she told me it hurts and she bled. i told her that i bled when i be raped. i asked her if my hymen broke from getting raped. she said the guys tore my vagina. then i asked her if i would bleed when i lost my virginity. she said it depends. so im wondering am i going to bleed when i lose my virginity? did i lose when i be raped? am i virgin?Im confused can someone explain this to me?
Oh honey, I'm so sorry for what happened to you. You bled formerly because your hymen was torn, but also because he probably did some internal deface to you.
I doubt you'll bleed this time, it'll be a much different situation.
Medically, you're not a virgin, but I think morally you are.
i didnt cogitate the guys tore your vagina. if you lose your virginity for the first time, it will usually bleed.. because, it breaks the hymen. so, if you bleed while having sex or bring raped, then i estimate you have lost it. but, if you enjoy not, then, you havent. only just pray to God that everything will be alright okay. (:
That is very hideous to hear - but I agree with what the ladies said above.